Downsizing Timelines
How long does it take to downsize?
Real stories from recent moves
"How long does the downsizing process take?"
Short answer: It depends—on your timeline, your space, and how much "pre-work" you do.
But "it depends" isn't very helpful when you're trying to plan a big life transition. So here are some real examples from families Songbird has worked with to help you visualize what your downsizing journey might look like.
The Long-Term Planner: Nearly a Year of Preparation
This spring, we helped eight families move into the beautiful new independent cottages at Otterbein Granville. We started working with these families nearly a year ago—right when they signed their agreements with the community.
Why start so early? These families wanted to approach their move incrementally while they awaited the completion of the construction. Over those months, we visited their homes multiple times for what we call "pre-move clear out" sessions. During these visits, families could sort through belongings at a comfortable pace, making decisions about what they wanted to keep and move to their new home.
The benefit? By the time moving day arrived, the stress had been distributed across many months instead of condensed into a few overwhelming weeks.
The Pre-Move Clear Out Approach: 2-4 Months
Not everyone has a full year to plan, and that's totally ok! Many Songbird clients work with us for two to four months before their move date. Here's how this timeline typically works:
Visit 1 (2-4 months before move): We assess your current space and new space and create an initial floor plan. We then focus on a specific room or section of the house and work with you on the decluttering and curating process to identify items you do and don't plan to take to your new home.
Visit 2 (1-2 months before move): We return to focus on another area of the house. We work with you to decide what stays and what goes and we can deliver donations, ship items to family members and clear out any items that can't be reused.
Moving Week: With most of the difficult decisions already made, we can focus on the actual move and unpacking, and settling you into your new space.
Our client Trish experienced this approach and told us: "I'm just going to sit back and marvel. This is actually fun!"
As our client Helen put it: "We've moved a lot of times… no one does it quite like you."
Both Helen and Trish participated in pre-move clear outs, which meant that by moving day, essentially everything left in their existing homes was intended for their new spaces.
The Quick Move: 2-3 Days
Life doesn't always give us months to prepare. Sometimes a health change, an unexpected housing opportunity, or family circumstances mean you need to move quickly.
Part of the beauty of what we do at Songbird is that we can help families move in as little as two to three days when necessary. This compressed timeline works, though it does require more intensive decision-making in a shorter period and also is dependent upon our existing client commitments.
What Affects Your Downsizing Timeline?
Every family's situation is unique, but here are factors that typically influence how long the downsizing process will take:
The size & length of time you've lived in your current home: Typically, a large family home filled with decades of memories, milestones, and accumulated belongings requires more time than a more modest space you've lived in just a few years.
Your attachment to belongings: Some families are naturally ready to find new homes for their stuff; others need more time to process each decision.
Your deadline: A firm move-in date requires more focused work whereas an open-ended timeline allows for more flexibility.
Family involvement: When adult children are involved and available to help, it can speed up decision-making—or sometimes add complexity!
The Hidden Gift of Pre-Move Clear Out
Regardless of your timeline, we encourage every family to consider some form of pre-move preparation.
When you tackle the downsizing process in stages—months or even weeks before your move—you shed layers of stress over time. This allows you to:
- Make thoughtful decisions instead of rushed ones
- Find meaningful homes for special items
Involve family members in the process without pressure - Reduce the physical and emotional exhaustion of moving day
- Actually enjoy settling into your new space instead of feeling overwhelmed
Your Downsizing Timeline Is Personal
There's no "right" amount of time for downsizing. What matters is finding an approach that honors your needs, your timeline, and your emotions throughout this transition.
Whether you're starting to plan a year in advance or facing a move next month, Songbird Transitions is here to help you create a timeline that works for you—and to walk beside you every step of the way.
If you or a loved one plan to downsize or relocate within Central Ohio, contact Songbird for a free initial consultation.
If you live elsewhere in the country, consider Downsizing Done Right, our step-by-step video-based guide & resource book. We are also available for personalized downsizing consulting, training and coaching services via Songbird Support.
Discover more downsizing resources from Songbird Transitions below.
Sorting Items with Sentimental Value
Strategies to avoid this catch phrase becoming a "catch all"
Learn moreDownsizing Done Right
A comprehensive kit to support your downsizing journey
Featuring step-by-step videos, a beautiful resource book plus an exclusive Q&A session with Songbird founder
Songbird Stories
A series of profiles & first-person essays on the joys of downsizing
The Stock Broker-turned Pastor
Moved from: 1,800 square foot, 2 bedroom, 2 bath condominium
Downsized to: ~1,100 square foot, 2 bedroom, 2 bath senior living apartment
Read Jane's Songbird Story
The Gardener
Moved from: 2,300- square foot, 4-bedroom, 2.5-bath home of 46 years
Downsized to: 1,200-square foot 2-bedroom, 2-bath ranch
The Teacher & Traveler
Moved from: 2,600-square foot, 4 bedroom, 3.5 bath home of 17 years
Downsized to: 1,500-square foot 2-bedroom, 2-bath villa
The Interior Designer
Moved from: 2,900 square foot, 3 bedroom, 1.5 bath home of 56 years
Moved to: 813 square foot, 2 bedroom, 1 bath apartment
The Apollo Engineer
Moved from: 2 bedroom, 2 bath, condominium with a full basement
Downsized to: 1 bedroom, 1 bath independent living apartment
Read Ed's Songbird Story
The Speech Pathologist
Moved from: 1,700 square foot, 3 bedroom, 3 bath home of 25+ years
Downsized to: 655 square foot, 1 bedroom apartment
The Landscape Architects
Moved from: 2,300 square foot, 2-story condo (after previous move from 4,000 square foot, 3-story house)
Downsized to: 1,300 square foot, 2-bedroom apartment
The Champions for Children
Moved from: 2,500 square foot, 3-story home of 5 years
Downsized to: 1,750 square foot, 1-story condominium
The Teacher & Engineer/Artist
Moved from: 3,300 square foot, 4 bedroom, 3 bath house with a large yard, woods & steep driveway
Downsized to: 1,100 square foot, 2 bedroom, 2 bath senior living apartment
Read Jane & Dave's Songbird Story"It's more than just a move."
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Nationwide Consulting & Support
Downsizing Done Right Toolkit
This toolkit includes downsizing video tutorials, a resource book plus a special Q&A session with Songbird. Downsizing Done Right is a comprehensive guide designed to help you or your loved one downsize with grace, dignity and ease.
Online Support & Consulting
In these personalized Zoom or FaceTime consulting sessions, Songbird can help you you navigate your specific downsizing situation, no matter where you live or where you're moving. Available in 1 hour, 2 hour & 3 hour packages.
On-Site Downsizing & Moving Services
If you live in Central Ohio, our Songbird team can help you (or your loved one) downsize and move into a senior living community or smaller home. We can manage your move from start to finish or you can choose from our menu of downsizing services.